ENCOURAGE / DISCOURAGE

Not Remembering things ok. Some people come along from a time you know you wasn't yourself. you were hanging around people that if who you were now, you try to imagine whatever did you all have in common. Don't let them tell you its drugs, don't let them make you think that your crazy. You disconnected from the part of you that never felt apart of that crown and I'm telling you that, it is OKAY; YOU HAVE REACHED A LEVEL OF GROWTH THAT THEY NO LONGER UNDER STAND.

Managing Pain

In this Photo it determines which choice one choose to make in spite of the other. many choose to struggle when the choice of living is so close, when you are rushing it may be hard to see. That does not mean it isn't there just means you need to clear your path in order to see what is right in front of you.

THIS POST DESCRIBES HOW DEALING WITH PAIN IS NOT EAST WHETHER YOU ARE STRONG OR NOT. IN THIS SENSE OF BEING A HUMAN PAIN COMES WITH THAT EXPERIENCE. IN ORDER TO ENJOY LIFE, WE NEED TO UNDERSTAND OUR PAIN NOT SUPPRESS IT OR ALLOW IT TO TAKE US OVER. IN THAT TIME, WE NEED TO USE IT TO RISE UP!

Understanding the Importance of Affirmations !

WE LET SOCIETY RAISE OUR KIDS TOO MUCH. IT CAN BE A DIFFICULT TASK BUT WE GOT THIS!! UNDERSTANDING OUR CHILDREN NEVER STOPS. THE WORLD THROW SO MUCH STUFF AT THEM

Emotions are like Chemicals - Mix Properly

THERE IS MANY OF US THAT UNDERSTAND THAT TRAUMA COMES FROM WHEN YOU ARE A KID. MOST PEOPLE MAY THINK THAT IS SOLEMNLY ONLY WHEN YOU ARE AN ADULT, OR WHEN YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP. LET US UNDERSTAND THAT THINGS COME AT US FROM MANY WAYS AND THE BEST WAY TO UNDERSTAND THAT IS TO TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN. WHEN THEY SAY CHILDREN IS THE KEY, THEY MEAN THE KEY TO SHOWING YOU WAYS TO GO BACK INTO AND LIVE LIFE BECAUSE YOU FORGOT. CHILDREN ARE A REMINDER TO WHAT WE FORGOT. WE MUST COME TO UNDERSTAND OUR CHILDREN. MANY PARENTS MAKE THE MISTAKE OF BELEIVING THAT THEY KNOW THEIR CHILDREN AND UNDERSTAND THEM BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE( i am not saying you do not know your children, it just some children need to be relearned). IF YOU NOT TAKING THE TIME OUT OR PUTTING THE WORK IN TO KEEP UNDERSTANDING THEIR CHANGES. YOU CAN NOT BE TOO SURE ABOUT THAT. THIS IS WHY ITS VERY IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND SELF. IF YOU HAVE NOT HEALED PROPERLY, YOU WILL NOT RAISE A HEALED CHILD. SOME TAKE IS AS AN INSULT WHEN ITS SAID THAT A CHILD KNOWS TOO MUCH. WE DO NOT GIVE OUR KIDS THE CREDIT THAT THEY DESERVE, WHEN THEY KNOW SOMETHING THAT YOU FEEL IS OUT OF THEIR AGE RANGE ITS YOUR JOB TO EDUCATE THEM . STOP THINKING BECAUSE THEY SEE YOU DO SOMETHING THEY AUTOMATICALLY KNOW; THEY NEED TO BE TAUGHT. THE YOUNGER YOU START THE BETTER THE RESULTS EVEN IF YOU FEEL LIKE THEY DO NOT UNDERSATND OR HEAR YOU TRUST ME THEY DO! WHETHER ITS CLEANING, COOKING, LOVE, AFFECTION, ATTITUDE, OR THE ANGER YOU CREATE, THEY CREATE. IT ONLY MATTERS WHERE/WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO START. It can be hard for us to stir up certain conversations with our children. At the same time who else is meant to do it besides us. They are going to come across many people, and many different situations, let's do our best with them before the world gets to them. That is the main job as parents. We want them to live, we do not want them suffering or trying to find themselves in their twenties let alone their thirties. The main thing that should focus on is traveling and how to appreciate growing in life, and everything that life has to offer. Credit, traveling, and enjoying who they are and what they want is what they must understand. Knowledge does come with all of that, it may seem like too much, but nothing is ever too much when it come to the children that we created.